今早六点多，帖吧有人圈我。我答应他收捨好屋子回帖。可惜没等收捨完，急电外出，刚回到家，狗也没溜就上了帖吧，却发现其帖已删。老马我是老实人，虑及"人而无信，不知其可"，故秉持忠告帖之余味，做个完结篇。
我相信，在这个世界上，处于目前文明状态下的普通人，都会犯错→或多或少，主动、被动，轻重、影响的区分而己。关键在于犯错后的自我认识心态和处置手法。在此，我延续忠告帖的风格，引用一段电影台词，请大家体会。有鉴于吧友可能因年龄段问题，不一定看过此等老片子，我简介如下:电影名《肖申克的救赎》，台词主人Red，年纪轻轻就因重案被判终身监禁，但每年有假释出狱的申请机会，故其屡次申请，皆拒。直到他白发苍苍，60多岁了，在面对假释官的审核时，说了下面这段话:
Red: There's not a day goes by I don't feel regret. Not because I'm in here, or because you think I should. I look back on the way I was then, a young, stupid kid who committed that terrible crime. I want to talk to him. I want to try and talk some sense to him, tell him the way things are. But I can’t. That kid's long gone and this old man is all that's left. I got to live with that. Rehabilitated? It's just a bullshit word. So you go on and stump your form, sonny, and stop wasting my time. Because to tell you the truth,I don't give a shit.
Red:我无时无刻不对自己的所作所为深感内疚,这不是因为我在监狱里,也不是为了讨好你们这些假释官。回首曾经走过的弯路,我多么想对那个犯下重罪的愚蠢的年轻人说些什么,告诉他我现在的感受,告诉他还可以有其他的方式解决问题。可是,我做不到了.那个年轻人早已淹没在岁月的长河里,只留下一个老人孤独地面对过去。重新做人?骗人罢了!小子,别再浪费我的时间了,盖你的拒绝章吧,说实话，我不在乎。
这是真心悔过。严以律已，宽以待人，共勉。